nvmf host shutdown hangs when nvmf controllers are in recovery/reconnect

[swise@opengridcomputing.com (Steve Wise)]

> > I think I suspect what is going on...
> >
> > When we get a surprise disconnect from the target we queue
> > a periodic reconnect (which is the sane thing to do...).
> >
> > We only move the queues out of CONNECTED when we retry
> > to reconnect (after 10 seconds in the default case) but we stop
> > the blk queues immediately so we are not bothered with traffic from
> > now on. If delete() is kicking off in this period the queues are still
> > in CONNECTED state.
> >
> > Part of the delete sequence is trying to issue ctrl shutdown if the
> > admin queue is CONNECTED (which it is!). This request is issued but
> > stuck in blk-mq waiting for the queues to start again. This might
> > be the one preventing us from forward progress...
> >
> > Steve, care to check if the below patch makes things better?
> >
> > The patch tries to separate the queue flags to CONNECTED and
> > DELETING. Now we will move out of CONNECTED as soon as error recovery
> > kicks in (before stopping the queues) and DELETING is on when
> > we start the queue deletion.
> 
> Steve, did you get around to have a look at this?
> 
> I managed to reproduce this on my setup and the patch
> makes it go away...

Yes, I think it is needed.

Reviewed-by: Steve Wise <swise at opengridcomputing.com>
Tested-by: Steve Wise <swise at opengridcomputing.com>

Thanks!!

Steve.